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What to Write in a Get Well Card: 40 Warm, Sincere Messages

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Harry Bourke
Founder, Bourkes Florist · 6 min read · Updated 23 June 2026
What to Write in a Get Well Card: 40 Warm, Sincere Messages

The flowers say “I’m thinking of you.” The card says it in your own voice — which is exactly why people freeze over it. After hand-writing thousands of get well cards onto customers’ orders, I can tell you the good ones are short, warm and specific. Here’s how to do it, with forty lines you can borrow.

The golden rule: keep it warm, keep it short

A get well card isn’t the place for a speech. One or two genuine lines beat a paragraph every time — the person reading it may be tired, sore or low, and a short, kind message is easier to take in. Sincerity always wins over cleverness.

For a friend

Warm and easy:

For family

Close and caring:

For a colleague

Friendly and professional:

For a serious illness

When someone’s facing something major, false cheer can ring hollow. Acknowledge it gently, focus on presence over platitudes, and avoid “get well soon” if recovery isn’t certain — “thinking of you” is kinder.

Gentle and honest:

Funny ones (when you know them well)

For someone who’d rather laugh:

You don’t need the perfect words. You need true ones. “Thinking of you, here if you need me” has comforted more people than any clever line ever has.

Pairing the words with flowers

Let the card and the flowers match in spirit — bright and breezy for a cheeky friend, soft and gentle for someone fragile. You’ll find the right bunch in our get well flowers collection, and we’ll hand-write your message free at checkout. Order by 2pm for same-day delivery.

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Harry Bourke
Founder, Bourkes Florist · Family flower business since 1978 · Founded in Armidale, NSW

Harry Bourke is the founder of the Bourkes Florist online flower service. He grew up around the family business — Bourkes Florist & Gift Centre, opened by his grandfather Harold Bourke in Armidale, NSW in 1978, its black-and-gold logo a local landmark. Harry brought the name back as an online florist, working with a nationwide network of skilled partner florists to deliver beautifully arranged flowers across Australia. He writes about flowers, gifting and the meaning behind them to help people send something genuinely thoughtful.

Frequently asked questions

What do you write in a get well card?

Keep it short, warm and specific — one or two sincere lines beat a long message. “Thinking of you and hoping you feel brighter every day” is plenty. We’ll hand-write it for you free at checkout.

What should you not write in a get well card?

Avoid minimising their illness, unsolicited medical advice, or forced cheer for a serious diagnosis. If recovery isn’t certain, “thinking of you” is kinder than “get well soon.”

Is it okay to be funny in a get well card?

Yes — if you know the person well and the illness isn’t serious, a light, affectionate joke can lift them more than anything. Read the situation, and when in doubt, keep it gentle.

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